A very embarresing question...?

well i have never been there in that predicament but i think if i wasn't gay and it botherd me i would just not get with him and drink,but if i wanted to drink i would find a new Friend to drink with,and i wouldn't let it bother me.i am sure it is embarring so i wouldn't tell my parents or friends i would just keep it to myself. was trying to be onset here without hurting your feelings so sorry if i did in any way good luck.